The Most Valuable Sex Tips
Let's brush aside one of the most common myths of all regarding sex and marriage - walking down the aisle leads to a diminished sex life?
Chances are, you have been involved in a relationship with a girl that you (at the time) considered to be 'the one'. However, the weeks and months go by, and yet you remain single. Subconsciously your mind is programmed to scan every opportunity hoping destiny will step in and save you. Whether it be a crowded room, at work, an online dating site , or friends of friends.
Every mans dream (deep down) is to believe that our heart will thump when 'the one' finally crosses the room, and there will be no mistaking that she's the one you've been waiting for. As it goes, (sadly) this kind of dream usually only seems real for brand new young adults who's minds are young, fresh, inexperienced and full of hope. Us guys who have been around the block a few (dozen) times, and as life inevitably starts to twist and turn, reality dashes all hope that our dreams once held.
Many people view a wedding ceremony as some kind of expurgation rather than a celebration. The day a man commits to his wedding vows, as the rational goes, the man relinquishes his entire privileges and commits to be on his best behavior. Bear the thought, the general consensus would suggest that monogamy decreases for married men given the passing of time, and on the surface, some married men would suggest a lack of monogamy as true manliness.
So what's the deal with so many married men being perceived as sexless and desperate, when study after study proves that married men are stoking the flames of love far more than their single male counterparts. Acknowledged, a married mans sex life (hypothetically) is with the same women, but at the end of the day it's up to each individual couple to keep the torch burning.
The thing is, there is always going to be the odd guy who always gets loads of sex with multiple women. But let's face facts, are you really one of these people? Didn't think so... But let's pretend that you were, just for a moment, will you still be pulling them in left right and centre in 15 years time? No way, you would probably be all alone trying desperately to extract any hint of youth that you probably don't have left anyway.
If your highest goal in life is for untapped and great sex, I'd be backing marriage.
Chances are, you have been involved in a relationship with a girl that you (at the time) considered to be 'the one'. However, the weeks and months go by, and yet you remain single. Subconsciously your mind is programmed to scan every opportunity hoping destiny will step in and save you. Whether it be a crowded room, at work, an online dating site , or friends of friends.
Every mans dream (deep down) is to believe that our heart will thump when 'the one' finally crosses the room, and there will be no mistaking that she's the one you've been waiting for. As it goes, (sadly) this kind of dream usually only seems real for brand new young adults who's minds are young, fresh, inexperienced and full of hope. Us guys who have been around the block a few (dozen) times, and as life inevitably starts to twist and turn, reality dashes all hope that our dreams once held.
Many people view a wedding ceremony as some kind of expurgation rather than a celebration. The day a man commits to his wedding vows, as the rational goes, the man relinquishes his entire privileges and commits to be on his best behavior. Bear the thought, the general consensus would suggest that monogamy decreases for married men given the passing of time, and on the surface, some married men would suggest a lack of monogamy as true manliness.
So what's the deal with so many married men being perceived as sexless and desperate, when study after study proves that married men are stoking the flames of love far more than their single male counterparts. Acknowledged, a married mans sex life (hypothetically) is with the same women, but at the end of the day it's up to each individual couple to keep the torch burning.
The thing is, there is always going to be the odd guy who always gets loads of sex with multiple women. But let's face facts, are you really one of these people? Didn't think so... But let's pretend that you were, just for a moment, will you still be pulling them in left right and centre in 15 years time? No way, you would probably be all alone trying desperately to extract any hint of youth that you probably don't have left anyway.
If your highest goal in life is for untapped and great sex, I'd be backing marriage.
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